The most hurtful things ever said to me by my wife

I don't think she realizes the negative effects that these statements have on the way i see her, and our relationship.
Trying to "discuss" these things just leads to shouting, and it eventually happens again anyway.

• She asks "Are you finished eating?" I reply "Not Yet" She says "I was talking to the children, I don't care if you eat"
• Whenever she has to do anything, she begins her sentences with  "Let your worthless wife do..." (Is she actually worthless? she thinks so. If i say anything in response, it turns into a fight)
• "I'm going to give the box of juice to my sister, should  i pay you for it?"
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