How we got to this point

1. I will always blame myself first and foremost, and think i could have done more
1. Doing more requires me to sacrifice myself and my core values and sanity
2. So the tradeoff is submit to her demands = mindless slave puppet
1. this does not even guarantee happy marriage
3. End result, i stop at sacrificing my core values
2. Biggest core value infractions
1. She has no respect for me or my family
2. She has no respect for time
3. She has no respect for money
3. Did i know about this before we got married?
1. She always got along with my family...until we got married
2. She was always late. I ignored this thinking it would improve. I was wrong.
3. She was never good with money. I ignored this thinking it would improve. I was wrong.
4. All of the infractions have built up in me over time to generate permanent anger towards her
1. Unless her behavior changes in these three areas, nothing can be resolved
5. Next Steps/Recommendations
1. Find someone who knows the value of respect